In 2015, I focused on savor. 2014 was about the word grow. 2013 was a year to celebrate. This year I’ve chosen the most challenging word yet. I’m taking grow a step further and focusing on the word deeper. To be honest, it makes me a little nervous. I still feel some resistance to this word, but that’s how I know it’s the right one. For my purposes here, deeper means trying harder, digging below the surface, being more intentional with my time and, really, whatever else God reveals to me this year.
Since it is already late March (ahem), I can talk about what deeper has looked like so far this year. Here’s the biggest lesson I’ve learned. One way I can go deeper this year is to get more organized so that I can invest time in worthy causes without giving up my peaceful home hours.
I’ve had a tendency to be too guarded with my time, so as part of my effort to live out my word for the year, I’ve tried to step up my involvement in activities when an opportunity comes up. In February, I ending up helping to plan events for two different groups that I’m involved with in the same week, and I almost didn’t recognize my life with so little down time. [Please note that I realize this is just a normal week for some of you. I’m talking to you, extroverts. :)] I felt guilty that I wasn’t home much during the day because Ben’s nap schedule was suffering and frazzled without my quiet time in the house to regroup. Both events went extremely well, and knowing that I helped make them happen was really satisfying. While I don’t regret participating, I also learned that it’s okay if I need a couple of quiet hours at home most days.
So, this gets pretty detailed, but I need to be able to refer back to it. In no particular order, here are some goals that have developed out of choosing the word deeper, and steps I’m taking…
Get organized and balance my time
- Drawing inspiration from women who have a routine or structure that is working well. There are so many great ideas out there in the blog and podcast world, in addition to real life examples, of course.
- Committing to some weekly routines like MOPS/Bible Study and story time at the library.
- Being diligent with bed time and nap time for the baby.
Steps to Take:
- Consider trying a bullet journal.
- Try to structure time when Ben is sleeping so that I’m using it more effectively.
Go deeper spiritually
- Joining a Bible study.
- Attending church ladies’ retreat.
- Having more consistent Bible reading time with my husband. **work in progress
Steps to Take:
- Embrace the renewed urgency I feel to deeper in my relationship with God and be prayerful and open to where he will lead.
- Be fearless when he opens a door I might not have expected.
Build skills at home
- Learning every day how to be a mom to this rapidly growing baby boy.
- Repainting the cabinets in our guest bathroom!
- Doing more reading and less TV watching, which makes me feel better about life.
- TV is not an inherently bad thing, but it can become too time-consuming and even harmful to our spirits, in some cases. When Parenthood and Parks and Recreation ended, for example, we didn’t replace them with new shows. Now my beloved Downton Abbey has ended, too, (sigh) and the timing is good. I’m getting a lot of book recommendations and making more frequent trips to the library. My little guy is finally old enough for story time! I cannot even describe the joy this brings to my inner literary nerd. Libraries are a happy place.
- Exercising most days
- Right now that means a fast-paced walk with the stroller on the trail system near our house. I love it and so does my boy. This falls into the spirituality category, too. It’s easier for me to find peace and connection with God when I am outside breathing fresh air and taking in natural scenes of trees and hills, etc. It’s a win win.
- In the kitchen— .
- I made my own chicken broth. You know what? It really does taste better. :) It is definitely labor intensive, but one thing I love about cooking is how it reminds us that good things are worth waiting for.
- I’ve enjoyed making food for Ben these last few months as well. My personal favorite is sweet potatoes with applesauce and a pinch of cinnamon. Que rico!
- I’m finding some favorite meatless recipes for us, and I try to do a meatless meal at least once a week.
- Trying to be more hospitable.
- We love hosting family and friends for gatherings, whether special meals or just people stopping by. We have done some of that already this year, and I’m really looking forward to some overnight guests coming up, too.
Steps to Take:
- Get better at cleaning.
- Make more progress on the long list of culinary endeavors I hope to tackle.
- From scratch bread, yogurt, ranch dressing, some recipes from my fancy books, etc.
- Start practicing yoga again.
- I’ve heard about a great yoga YouTube channel, and I would like to start utilizing that to work on strength.
- Take on more home improvement projects.
- More painting, fireplace, yard…
- Invest more time in writing.
- Find more ways to be hospitable.
It should be an interesting and rewarding year, and I appreciate the accountability of being able to talk about my one word in this space. Can any of you relate to the challenges I’m laying out for the year? I would love to hear your experiences and any wisdom you have to offer.